NY WEDDING RABBI LEV HERRNSON​

A couple recently challenged the traditional Jewish wedding vows. Recited during the ring exchange under the chuppah (wedding canopy), the groom makes this vow to his bride: Harei at mekudeshet li betaba’at zo k’dat Moshe v’Israel—typically translated as, "By this ring, you are consecrated to me (as my wife) in accordance with the laws of Moses and the people of Israel." Rachel and Matthew had a visceral reaction to this traditional vow. "He's not going to say that to me.

Your wedding day, glorious as it was, is now behind you. Family and friends still talk about your special day, bringing a smile, warmth and even a glow to your face. Still, everyday life edges out those loving and sacred moments, at least on most weekdays. You’re newlyweds. What now? How do you make certain that everyday life doesn’t totally eclipse the joy and wonder of that first day together? Here’s some advice for you newlyweds. Most clergy meet with couples at leas